There are moments that change your life forever. Several moments actually if you live for a good amount of time. Opportunities will come and go. You’ll have to be strong enough to survive some of them. You’ll have to give each decision its day in court.
Not everything will come down to how intelligent you are or how compassionate, strong, or patient. It won’t matter how together you seem to have it or how experienced. Shit will happen. You will have a choice to make.
I would recommend distancing yourself from emotions first. Look at the facts. It may take time to get to this point. This is where patience comes in.
If something tragic happens find people who will be patient and kind. People who will let you cry. Those who will let you collapse but will be there to hold you up when you have nothing left.
Don’t do it yourself.
Your life will change forever. More than once.
You can’t prepare for those moments.
Just know they are waiting for you.
HASTYWORDS 
This is lovely. So eloquently said. Wonderful read!
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Indeed, time and time again and the challenge to be ready.
“To expect the unexpected shows a thoroughly modern intellect.” – Oscar Wilde
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Reblogged this on cabbagesandkings524 and commented:
Hasty contemplates the transformation by the unexpected.
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this is so true and so well said –
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You’re brilliant, Hasty. So very wise. Friendly and compassionate. Easy on the eyes. 🙂
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So true. So much of life (all)is outside my control. I try to find acceptance of this, but it is hard.
Anne
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Death comes every day,
sometimes the fool who is resurrected
Is closer to the fool that died
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This is a very nice ‘wisdom’ article. I enjoyed the read so I am going to reblog it for you.
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Thank you
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Reblogged this on Truth Troubles.
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There have been several such moments. You have put the bug in my mind, and so they will be laid out, in my next post.
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Please explain dis to me “” a Prophetess told me dat in d next three years my life will change forever”” what does it actually mean?????
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